Why don't you approach every beautiful woman you see? Because the fear that she may reject and humiliate you, often leaves you feeling paralyzed.
Its ok, you are not alone. Every man experiences this fear. And did you know women get scared, nervous, sweaty palms, and draw mental blanks when they are approached by the opposite sex? They are just like us and experience very similar feelings of anxiety.
The good news is that by using a couple easy tools you can eliminate up to 96% of the possibility of humiliation. This tool does not always lead to a successful closing; however it will determine if she will be receptive to your approach or not.
I call it the smile test and this is how it works;
You see the beautiful girl and eventually you exchange eye contact. When your eyes meet, you genuinely and sincerely smile at her. If she returns your smile she is going to receptive to you initiating a conversation.
This is for a few reasons:
1. Smiling is the most basic form of flirting and best of all you dont have to say a single word.
2. If you smile at her, you are showing you are confident and assertive. You saw an attractive girl and you smiled at her.
3. Very few other men will just smile at a strange girl. This will make you unique and different from every other guy she could be dating.
4. Lastly, you dont expect women with boyfriends to be smiling at strange men because it is flirting. Thus you have a much higher likelihood that she will be single and available.
If you think back about some of the prettiest women that you have seen and wish you had talked too, likely one of these girls smiled at you. When women smile they are much more attractive. The same is true for men.
In addition when you do this, she will see you as much more approachable, confident, outgoing, and better looking. If you are nervous about rejection an easy step to get things started is to just smile at the women you find attractive.
You dont have to talk to them but notice how many return your smile. It feels really good to have good looking girls smile at you.
Its ok, you are not alone. Every man experiences this fear. And did you know women get scared, nervous, sweaty palms, and draw mental blanks when they are approached by the opposite sex? They are just like us and experience very similar feelings of anxiety.
The good news is that by using a couple easy tools you can eliminate up to 96% of the possibility of humiliation. This tool does not always lead to a successful closing; however it will determine if she will be receptive to your approach or not.
I call it the smile test and this is how it works;
You see the beautiful girl and eventually you exchange eye contact. When your eyes meet, you genuinely and sincerely smile at her. If she returns your smile she is going to receptive to you initiating a conversation.
This is for a few reasons:
1. Smiling is the most basic form of flirting and best of all you dont have to say a single word.
2. If you smile at her, you are showing you are confident and assertive. You saw an attractive girl and you smiled at her.
3. Very few other men will just smile at a strange girl. This will make you unique and different from every other guy she could be dating.
4. Lastly, you dont expect women with boyfriends to be smiling at strange men because it is flirting. Thus you have a much higher likelihood that she will be single and available.
If you think back about some of the prettiest women that you have seen and wish you had talked too, likely one of these girls smiled at you. When women smile they are much more attractive. The same is true for men.
In addition when you do this, she will see you as much more approachable, confident, outgoing, and better looking. If you are nervous about rejection an easy step to get things started is to just smile at the women you find attractive.
You dont have to talk to them but notice how many return your smile. It feels really good to have good looking girls smile at you.
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